Dog and Child: Safe Rules for a Good Togetherness

Kleinkind füttert einen jungen Hund unter Aufsicht

Dogs and children can form a wonderful friendship – if both learn to interact respectfully. The most important factor remains adult supervision.

The most important points in brief

  • Never unsupervised: Always keep an eye on toddlers and dogs.
  • The dog needs a retreat that is off-limits.
  • Children learn: do not disturb during eating, sleeping, or retreating.

What research shows: most bites are preventable

A study by Reisner et al. (2011) analyzed bites on 111 children. Result: Most bites on small children happened at home, with the familiar dog, during an otherwise positive interaction – the most common trigger was resource guarding (e.g., food). In small children, 70% of bites affected the face. The message: "bad dogs" are not the problem, but rather a lack of supervision and unfortunate situations.

Source: Reisner et al., 2011, Injury Prevention

Rules for Children

  • Leave the dog alone when it's eating or sleeping.
  • Do not hug, hold, or climb on the animal.
  • Pet gently instead of grabbing – and let the dog decide.
  • Stay calm, don't run away or shriek.

Rules for Adults

  • Always supervise – especially with small children.
  • Provide a safe retreat for the dog.
  • Separate resources (food, chews) – out of the child's reach.
  • Read body language and create distance early.
Important: Never leave babies and toddlers alone with the dog – not even "just for a moment" and not even with the sweetest family dog.
Practical tip: Practice the "cookie jar rule": The dog gets its resting places and food where children can't reach them. And children learn early: "Sleeping or eating dog = look, don't touch."

Frequently asked questions

At what age does a child understand the rules?

The younger the child, the more supervision is needed. Toddlers can barely interpret signals – here, adults bear full responsibility.

How can I tell if the dog is overwhelmed?

Turning away, yawning, licking its nose, retreating – then immediately create distance.

Sources

  • Reisner I. R. et al. (2011): Behavioral assessment of child-directed canine aggression. Link

In case of tension, consult a dog trainer with family experience early on.